I noticed earlier this week that my orchid had five new buds. That's right five new little baby buds just waiting to spring forth and take on the new year. This orchid is my baby. I love her. I check her water every day, change her when she needs it and make sure she gets just the right amount of sunlight to keep her happy. So you can imagine my delight when I saw that my little princess was growing.
Today, I noticed that one of her little buds was budding. Thrilled, I went in for a closer look. The purple little swirls on white canvas were starting to shine through. I went to turn to walk away and noticed something unfamiliar on my dresser top. Pedals. Wilted pedals. My heart sank - for a moment - but then I thought "well maybe these pedals need to shed to make room for this new little addition", immediately followed by "I need to fix this". And fix this, I did not. I played with her a little too aggressively, trying to re-position her in her pot for better success. She snapped, right in half. Out loud: "I can't believe I just f*$#ing did that!". I swear I almost cried. Thank Buddha, my orchid came as twins and I still have another beautiful stem left to pamper.
Last year was the year of change. And from writing and reflecting on the past year I learned that in order for these new changes to happen, some old had to be let go of. In order to move on to a new place, the current one needs to be left. In order to take on new habits, some old ones need to be lost.
Change is the process of becoming different. And it's work. At least it was for me. For a long time I would think of this woman that I wanted to be and I would force myself into that idea. It wouldn't work. I would snap.
In nature, change happens naturally. Trees sprout, the sun shines, the rain falls and the trees grow. The fall comes and the leaves change and with the winter wind the leaves are scattered throughout the streets. With the spring comes new buds and the cycle continues.
Change, I'm learning, involves both the process of letting go and the process of letting in. There is a natural rhythm in change that needs to be respected. I have changed the most over this past year. Not only in my thoughts and ideals, but in my actions and reactions. A change has happened in the way that I view the world and the way that I've come to respect myself in finding my place in this world. This was a change that I didn't even know that I wanted. A change that just happened over time, organically, through reading, through yoga, through traveling and the people I met along the way.
This change, led me to view change - and it's process - differently. Rather than fight for it and end up running from it, I just opened up to see what would happen. Sometimes, by letting go of the idea of change and just opening up to the world and it's possibilities something really beautiful can take place. And that's what happened.
Now, if only I could keep this throughout the day, every day, my little orchid wouldn't have had to pay the price
"Change is the essence of life. Be willing to surrender what you are for what you could become."
~ Reinhold Niebuhr
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